Sperm donor son drama erupts after two years when a once-doting husband admits he hates their toddler and regrets using a donor, leaving his wife devastated. The mother, posting on Reddit, described her partner's switch from hands-on dad to distant stranger, quoting his furious outburst: "I hate DS and that going with a donor was a mistake." Their family crisis has Reddit users urging therapy or a total split.

Commenters, waving digital torches of advice, say the marriage is toast unless the husband gets serious therapy, as one quipped, "There is no living with someone who hates your child." The saga’s become a cautionary Reddit tale about the risks of pleasing your partner with life-altering decisions—complete with a toddler climbing for cuddles while dad vanishes behind a wall of resentment.

One blunt Redditor advised, "Change the child’s name, remove dad from the birth certificate, and raise your son to believe he was chosen, loved, and deeply wanted by you."